Improve Your Emotional Health (2)


Key points to improving your emotional well-being are

1 Learning how to relax and let go of stress
2 Eating a sensible diet and exercising on a regular basis
3 Get a good nights sleep every night
4 Deal with problems as they arise
5 Give yourself a break and stop putting yourself down
6 Don’t let things build up, get thoughts and feelings out
7 Steps to Stop Procrastinating

Are you a victim of laziness, a root cause of procrastination? Do you often suffer because of what you initially considered as easy has turned difficult with the loss of time, and what appeared hard, due to further delay, has become impossible now? You may draw comfort from the fact that you are in the company of many that are affected by procrastination. But you must realize that you will experience true comfort, if you get rid of your laziness by shaking yourself up into action. Like many others, you can indeed stop procrastinating and start meeting deadlines, by following a few simple steps that teach you effective time management.

1. Plan your daily must-do activities. Draw up a to-do list; preferably, write it down on paper; or, use a computer if you prefer.

2. Prioritize the activities, the more important ones taking precedence over the less important. If there are urgent things to do, but not important enough to be worried about if not done, put them below the important ones. The idea is based on the established principle that 80% of rewards accrue from 20% of effort directed towards accomplishing important work.

3. Estimate the time required for each of the listed activities after analysing their complexity. Avoid underestimation, as you may not have enough time to do well a particular of piece of work. Similarly, avoid overestimation, for that may leave some activities without enough time. A realistic budgeting of time is a must. Time allocation is a skill that is acquired with experience. So keep reviewing and revising your time schedule as you progress.

4. Organize your life. That will help you avoid wasting your precious time and leave more time for the actual work. Remember indiscipline causes confusion, even chaos, in life. It eats into your time. Avoid sloppiness. For instance, leave your personal belongings of daily use, like your glasses, your clothing, your computer etc., in the same place. If you do, you won’t need to spend time looking for them all over the place. Apply the principle of doing work first and then taking time for pleasure and relaxation. Reverse the order only at the pain of falling prey to procrastination. You can get time for rest and relaxation if you are efficient in doing your assigned work.

5. Start working bit by bit. You may see a mountain at first, but mountains can be moved, especially if you begin by moving just a small stone from it. You know you cannot move the entire mountain all at once. Do not be overwhelmed by the immensity of the task before you. That will put you off. And you will put off the task for another day, which will never come. Just begin by taking one small step and you will invariably reach your destination.

6. Put first things first early in the day. Remember procrastination grows into a habit by the minute. Begin your day by launching yourself head first into the most important job waiting to be done.

7. Learn to cope with anxiety, depression, stress and other similar conditions of the mind related to your problems in life. Keep yourself fit, not just physically but mentally as well. Learn and practice suitable mental relaxation techniques such as meditation.

 Improve Your Emotional Health


emoticonsThere are many things in life that can affect our emotional well-being and our emotional well-being is one of the most important aspects when it comes to being healthy. In order to be truly healthy it is essential to have stable and healthy emotions. If your emotions are not stable then your whole body will be affected and this will lead to a decline in health and overall well-being.
 
If you follow the holistic belief of health then this dictates that along with healthy eating, exercise and dieting we have to take care of our mental health as well.  It is only when body and mind are fit and healthy can we gain true overall health. Emotional well-being, physical well-being, intellectual and social well-being all come together and if any of these are affected it will affect our health. There are many factors that can affect these, including problems in relationships, unemployment, money problems, social problems and physical problems to name but just a few. Improving your emotional well-being depends on altering aspects of your life that affect it.
 
Stress is the biggest enemy that can change our emotions and feelings so it is imperative that you remove as much stress from your daily life as possible, you should learn new techniques to banish stress quickly and effortlessly without allowing it to build up. There are many techniques you can choose to combat stress, from practising yoga and meditation to simple breathing exercises and affirmations, the key is to find the method that works the best for you.
 
Negative thinking is another downfall many of us acquire throughout our lives and this can cause many problems with emotional well-being, always thinking the worse or continually putting yourself down will lead to low self-confidence and low self-esteem. Affirmations or positive self-talk is an excellent way to help you deal with negative thoughts and feelings. Changing the way you think will change the way you feel and when you feel better about your life and yourself you will have a different outlook on life which will lead to a healthier you.
 
Situations that occur in your daily life can change your emotional well-being and while we often cannot change situations, we can change how we deal with them, how they affect our thoughts, feelings and emotions. Feelings of anger, sadness and uncertainty all cause problems with out emotional well-being and ultimately our overall health, the trick is to not hold your feelings inside but let them out. Harbouring anger, resentment or sadness for long periods of time can be devastating for our emotional well-being. Keeping a journal to write about your thoughts and feelings can help as can having someone to talk to; the main point is getting your feelings out.

Do New Thing Everyday: Get Out of the Rut


At times we may feel as if we’re stuck, the world has closed in around us and there is no way out.  Being in this situation can not only make you feel depressed but also make you less productive.

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Daily life, for most of us, is ran by a routine or an action that we cannot avoid(IE working an 8 hour day, taking the kids to school).  Another reason behind routine is that we get into a comfortable state with our lives and feel secure in where we are, so why change anything?

However, sometimes we can get down because of our routines.  Work gets harder, relationships have problems, we become unhappy and daily life isn’t what we thought.  This is when a change is needed; now is the time to claw with you fingernails if needed to get out of the hole you have put yourself in and start living a better life.  Enjoy life again!

Here is a list of some tips to help you regain control and get out of your rut.

  • Do at least one new thing everyday that is not in your normal routine, this could be as simple as starting a pastime you once enjoyed again.
  • Take up new hobbies, give yourself some time throughout the day to enjoy yourself
  • Try new foods
  • Get out and meet some new people
  • Take up a new sport-this is a way to meet new people and get some exercise in

Excellent Self-Care

While the majority of people do try and take care of their physical health with exercising and a d good diet most don’t think about the other side…Mental health.

Here are some tips for excellent self-care:

  • Pamper your body- exercising can take care of our body but we also need to remember to give our body a treat every now and then.  This could be in form of a massage after a hard days work or maybe some easy stretches to help relax the body
  • Relax- refresh your body and mind by taking time out of your day to give yourself some peace and quiet time.
  • Be a kid again- I’m sure we can all agree that our childhood was much simpler than what we face today.  Go do something that you use to do as a kid.  Jump in a puddle, go swimming, go rollerblading or just anything to get your mindset back to having fun and enjoying life.
  • Find comfort- we all have things that comforts us in trying times, something that can make us feel safe and secure.  This may be reading your favorite book, sitting in front of a fire or maybe just sitting down and watching your favorite TV show.
  • Dare to dream- take yourself out of your own world and enter another one. Maybe just sitting outside and daydreaming, reading a fantasy book or watching a fantasy movie just go into your own fantasy world.
  • Have a “Just for ME” day- Treat yourself to a full day of doing whatever you want!  Don’t do any work or even think about work just do what you want and enjoy your “Just for ME” day.
  • Release- write down any concerns or worries you have in a daily journal.  This can release a lot of stress!
  • Put yourself first- never put anyone about yourself never compare yourself to others.  You will find that you can help and reach more people if you make sure your good first.
  • Stay off the pedestal- Never let anyone put you up on a pedestal.  Stay humble and let people know your human because if not you will feel and believe you have let someone down.

Make goals that you work towards to achieve what it is you want out of life.