Archive for March, 2010

The 5 Principles to Unlocking Wealth


These principles are a key to unlocking amazing cache of wealth, abundance and success. They are all centered on our true innate qualities, which as a matter of fact are universal and have a spiritual basis. These principles are:

* Truth
* Righteousness
* Peace
* Love, and
* Non-violence

The practice of these virtues will enable anyone to progress in life without any doubt.

The reason is simple.

These universal principles are all attractive and needless to say, they form the cornerstones of the code of ethics. You cannot go wrong practicing the importance to moral values, codes of conduct and obeying the Law of Nature in your pursuit of Wealth.

In the coming pages, you will discover the goal of reaching financial freedom while at the same time, acquiring the perfect art of happiness through the understanding that the measure of joy is not ‘directly’ proportional to just monetary wealth.

This concise, precise and straight-to-the-point manuscript explores avenues that are most definitely going to change your life for the better.

Unlike many other books on the same subject, this manuscript delves on subject areas relevant to aspects of your personal life and growth that I can guarantee will bring back that smile on your face. It is clear, focused and above all a readable book, which you will enjoy.

It Can Never Happen?

While pessimism warns us of dangers lurking before our very own eyes, optimism may propel us into false security. Pessimism should only be considered initial and not a final predicament in any situation – this is the first step to success.

Time and again, we have been subjected to instances that are disturbing, and deep within us we ‘realize’ the potential dangers and risks surrounding us, and the ‘voice’ within adamantly rejects this threatening situation confronting us, as such because we fail to recognize this ‘voice’ within us our mental clinging to the outer world detaches us from the inner voice of ‘TRUTH’ thereby throwing us totally of the tracks as it were.

The second step to success and wealth is to convince yourself of the importance of self-control, self awareness and self-discipline.

We must listen to the voice within and realize the existence of the innate force or the Dynamic Willpower – the mighty power expressing through the mind, body and the intellect! Thus the second step qualifies that you develop faith in not just what you can do and achieve but most importantly developing faith in yourself (your innate, inherent and latent qualities).

Step three requires that through constant vigilance, employing the power of intelligence, self analysis and introspection and through careful understanding and use of these concepts, you can learn to live beyond the demands of the mind in whatever environment you find yourself – this will qualify you to implement and embrace the road to wealth.

There is no such thing as a free lunch. If you hate to put in any work/effort but love to attain success, you will have to reconsider your views.

So to achieve the latter, you have to do the former and the sensible idea is to find out what really gives us pleasure and then find out if it is possible to make money from doing it.

“If you do not start you will not succeed.”

Success and Failure Dilemma


successThis morning when I went to work out at the gym. While I was exercising, my mind went through what happened to me for the past few days. I was quite depress! Why was that? It was because I did not get what I expected. I am supposed to be right with the assumption that if I do not get what I want, I have the right to feel depress, right? Did I feel good after that? Not really. I was still depressed due to the poor result of what I have done. After awhile, I asked myself “OK, if that was right. Then tell me what exactly you want?” I was wordless. I could not tell exactly what it was. Although, I have something in my mind, I did not make myself clear on what I want. Then I thought, where is my goal? I thought I had a goal but I didn’t. I was just like most of the people who may have something up in the mind and thought that it was a goal. Actually, when the mind is not stable, there is some chance that your goal goes away also.

This is why many successful people give the theory of having written goals. You will need to write your goals down. Then you will have tangible goals which can be evidence to yourself what you want.

Now, I know why I failed. It was because I did not set my goals right in the first place. I didn’t know what I really want and thought that I did. However, I still did not feel well with my discovery. I still had something in my mind. May be goal setting is one thing but there may be more reason than that. What are they?

This leads to the second point of the equation. Did I really fail because I could not get what I want? Although what I want was not clear, I still have some rough estimate in my mind. If I did not achieve that, I failed.

As the matter of fact, failure has not happened. Not until you have given up on your goal. In other words, if you do not give up, you will succeed some day. In that case, failure does not even exist. I used to attend Tony Robbins’ Class. He taught us that “in our life, there is no failure. Those are just feedbacks. If you can learn your lesson well, you can turn those feedback to success. It will be the same way as many other successful people do.

There are just a thin line that separates between success and failure. If you keep on taking actions and evaluating your results and making adjustment. You will one day, with the condition that you do not give up, succeed.

 Signs of the Stars


Perhaps the biggest sign that you are getting where you want to be in life is the deep feeling of utter contentment and happiness you feel, how when you get out of bed first thing in the morning you awake looking forward to a brand new day. However, there are many smaller signs that you are going in the right direction towards getting there, which can help us to stick with our plans for change and get us through those periods when we are uncertain or feel like giving in.
 
We all have different reasons for wanting to change ourselves for the better, perhaps we have to go on a diet to lose a few pounds, we might be trying to quit smoking or drinking, we might have problems with low self-esteem that we need to overcome or need to develop our communication skills. These are just some of the aspects in life that we have to deal with and overcome in order to better ourselves, and of course, as with anything, making any changes to your lifestyle will require some patience. Noticing changes in yourself won’t happen overnight, it could take weeks, even months for you to start feeling the benefits of your changes and seeing those changes but there are many positive little signs that should give us encouragement and which can tell us we are getting there. Here are just a few of the signs
 
• Every time you look into a mirror, the first thing you do is smile at yourself.
• You suddenly find that you have a whole lot more choice when it comes to buying clothes
• You stop putting blame on the world or those around you for your mistakes
• You jump out of bed full of energy looking forward to a new day, instead of pulling the covers around your head and going back to sleep
• You find you no longer worry whether other people like you are not
• You do what you want to do instead of what you think others want you to do
• You get more comments about the big change in you
• You find the word “no” is in your vocabulary
• Your teenager starts to borrow your clothes
• You no longer fear making new friends
• You actually feel proud of what you have accomplished
• You can laugh and see the funny side when you make a mistake
• You automatically learn from your mistakes and shrug them off more easily
• You are able to reach the goals you set out for yourself more easily
• You find that you are no longer putting things off, but looking forward to them instead
• You make changes t your life naturally without even thinking about them
• You cant remember the last time you had a bad day
• You just feel you are heading in the right direction

Do I need a life coach?


In order to determine if you benefit from having a life coach the first question you should ask yourself

is “what do I wish to accomplish with a life coach?” if you can answer this question then a life

coach would be able to work successfully alongside you to help you develop a strategy to obtain your

goals. Life coaching is all about developing a partnership between the two of you and it is essential

that you are able to be open to advice and constructive criticism; if you are not, then a life coach may

not be the best option for you. Listed below are some questions that could help you determine if you

could benefit from a life coach, if you can answer yes to any of them then you could possibly benefit

from having a life coach.
 
• Do you feel there is a lack of support in your life?
• Do you have problems with low self-esteem issues?
• Do you feel everyone has a plan or goal in life but you?
• Do you feel you are going through a tough time and need a helping hand?
• Do you feel bogged down with deadline and don’t know which way to turn?
• Do daily tasks make you feel overwhelmed?
• Do you feel as though the entire world is against you?
• Do you feel everyone knows the secret to being successful but you?
• Do you feel you could get more out of life or better yourself?


thumbs-upOne of the applications of NLP is to do what is called “modelling excellence.”  When you recognize a genius or exceptional person who has a great ability to accomplish certain things or is excellent in a particular field, you may wish to use this person as a model.  Through imitation, you can use these same factors or qualities that you admire in the person and apply them to yourself.  NLP techniques aim at discovering the most important elements that contribute to the person’s excellence, and at transferring them to you so that you can replicate that excellence.
 
Therapeutic NLP
There are some therapeutic applications of NLP, which are mainly borrowed from the practice of hypnosis. These applications rely considerably on the terminology employed by an American psychiatrist, Milton H. Erickson, like hypnotic phenomena, therapeutic metaphor, story, rapport, age regression, conscious and unconscious communications etc.
 
Advocates of NLP hold that its techniques, especially, those dealing with communication, can very well be applied in business for its promotion. One has to first master the NLP techniques and then skilfully use them to see the results for themselves.
 
Why a life coach?
 
If you would like to achieve more or enhance your life then you should consider getting advice from a life coach. A life coach can be many things including your personal consultant, someone who listens or your manager, they can help to set you in the right direction in life, help you to get the most out of life and determine your goals in life and help you reach them.
 
The many ways you can benefit by having a life coach
•  Help you to gain more control over your life
• Develop better strategies for managing your time
• Reduce stress and increase your productivity by simplifying your life
• Helping you to realize and maximize your potential
• Help improve your relationships with others
• Help you to prioritize tasks and meet deadlines more easily
• Help with important decisions you have to make in life
• Show you techniques to enable you to deal better in stressful situations
• Help you to balance your work and social life
• Help you to develop plans of action and life goals
 
A life coach can help in both professional and personal life and are there to help you obtain better results and gain a better quality of life in all aspects. Life coaches have been trained to adapt to listening, observing and then developing individual strategies to help people get out of the rut they find themselves in.